Monday, December 19, 2005

What did you learn from your break up?


Here are few points a poster in the forum mentions as his main relationship mistakes:

  • I made too many consessions.
  • I gave up a lot of my personal life.
  • I stopped hanging out with friends
  • I didn't have any hobbies or activities outside of the house.
  • My focus was on her and US.
  • Everything I did in my life was for her.
  • She also took a lot for granted and became selfish.
  • We didn't really communicate.
  • Some times we would have deep conversations, but most of the time it was just minor chitchat.

A break up is truly an occasion to assess a past experience and learn from it.

It's the idea moment to ask this question: "What could I have done differently?"

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Take care

vitalcoach