Monday, October 01, 2007

Why your ex can verbally attack you, insult you or exagerate facts when breaking up with you - ARTICLE

An ex might verbally attack you because it gives her a kick to do so.

Some women are naturally agressive and when trapped in a situation they don't like, they will react emotionally to try to free themselves.

She might react that way when she feels your relationship is becoming too committed or limiting for her. She feels trapped and looks for a way out.

This is why she might insult you or treat you really badly!

Did you do something wrong?

Even if you did, emotional abuse is never justified.

Look at this example that was posted on the forum recently:

She was drunk. She asked him to kiss her. He said "No". She left angry and slamed the door!

That's being emotionally abusive. It is literally treating people like s**t!

Most of the verbal and emotional abuse you might get is totally unjustified!

Simple! Don't let her do that by staying away from her!

You need to be strong and firm. Let her know that you are not okay with this type of behavior and that she must respect your space from now on.

If she still pushes, tries to contact you and still shows no respect, you will need to take it to the next octave and apply even more powerful strategies.

More on this coming soon.

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To your power!

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