Wednesday, May 05, 2010

Being true to yourself - What does it mean? - TIP

Here is an interesting idea I see a lot in the dating world.

People often believe that changing anything in the way you relate to others means betraying yourself or your nature...

Here is the comment a guy posted on one of my vids:

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HIM - What if women don't like me for who I am? WHAT TO DO THEN?

ME - Who are you? What part of you is it that they don't like?

HIM - All I know is that being myself is what got me where I am. I have to be someone different, even if that's dishonest to everyone involved

ME - Spot in with CHANGING what does NOT work - Now there is nothing dishonest about doing things differently. Listen to what I am going to say because that's ESSENTIAL - This set of behaviors, attitudes and mind sets you call "You" are not you. They are simply a actions and emotions you adopted one day and got used to - You don't betray ANYTHING by changing them.

ME - The new attitudes that you create are YOU as much as the old ones - They are simply different expressions of who you can be, that's all! Believe me, no betrayal of anything here!


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What do YOU think? Leave me your impressions in the comments below...

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