Your ex might react in all sorts of very irrational ways when she hears about your new relationship.
She might accuse you of:
- Betraying the memory of the love you had with her.
- Jumping too fast in a new relationship.
- Not taking time to mourn.
- Not caring about her feelings.
- Using this new girl as a rebound.
- Having a shallow connection with a girl you don't really care for.
In other terms, it's very common for an ex to try to degrade whatever love or romance you are experiencing.
As you can imagine, that's absolute, total non sense!
She does all that for one simple reason: she is jealous.
She attacks your new love because deep inside she still wants to be number one!
It's a competitive response from her.
You have to let your ex go and be ok with whatever emotional reaction she's having.
You simply don't have to listen!
You are doing what's right by dating this new girl.
Right now, your ex's attitude is TOXIC!
Don't contact her for a while.
If she was given the possibility she would happily do anything she can to poison your connection with this new girl.
Stay away from her as much as possible if you don't want her to negatively impact on the fun you experience now.
I know you wish she was reacting differently but she will most likely not change and be super disrespectful with her emotional reaction towards you.
Stay away from her!
Right now she's like a virus!